Creating small moments of self-care throughout your day is one of the most powerful actions we can take to increase our self-worth and step up to be the lover/teacher/sister we are so destined to be.

When we practice self-care, we:

  • can give more to the ones we love
  • show up to every moment in the best version of ourselves available at the time
  • understand that we hold the keys to our happiness, not someone else
  • feel more comfortable saying no because we know what it feels like to feel good
  • allow ourselves to take a break and give our bodies the rest we need

Repeat after me: 

  • I matter. I am allowed to say no to others and yes to myself.
  • I can nourish myself to allow myself to flourish.
  • I am now creating new routines that help support my self-care.



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Belula Dry Brushing Body Brush – dry brush the morning before you hop in the shower to help stimulate the lymphatic system and exfoliate skin. Small circles towards the heart.

Clarisonic Mia Cleansing Brush –  I use this 2-3 times/week with the DōTERRA Facial Cleanser and one drop of Ylang-Ylang. Feels my skin feeling so smooth!

EarthWise Aromatics Palo Santo Sticks – cleanse your space of negative energy. I love this ritual before meditation and as needed throughout my house.

Yogi Skin Detox Tea – my AM tea (contains a small amount of caffeine!). The taste is divine.

Bragg’s Apple Cider Vinegar – I add about 1 tbsp. to my morning “tonic”. Make it yourself, it’s super easy: 25 oz. of water + ACV + 3 drops of Grapefruit + 2 drops of Juniper Berry.

YogaToes Therapeutic Toe Stretchers – bunions always have my feet feeling tight and these are the perfect way to release the muscles in my feet as I wind down at night.

Philosophy Purity Made Simple Face Wipes – the ultimate makeup remover! Leaves your skin feeling hydrated and clean, plus they contain essential oils!

BedTime Bliss Eye Mask – a travel necessity for me!

Dr. Teal’s Epsom Salts – the foundational ingredient in all of my detox baths! The magnesium is thought to help relieve sore muscles and encourage relaxation. Get creative and add essential oils of your choice.

Grace + Stella De-Puffing Under-Eye Masks – helps to de-puff and energize the under-eye area. I love to use these when I’m in my detox bath or towards the end of a long flight.

Meili Trigger Point Massager – aka torture device, this tension reliever is killer on the trouble areas on your legs, feet, and back. Don’t say I didn’t warn you!


When you recover or discover something that nourishes your soul and brings you joy, care enough about yourself to make room for it in your life.


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Carley is the self-care coach and author of the book and digital course, Boundaries with Soul™.

After years of people-pleasing in the corporate fashion industry in New York City, she finally realized there was more to life than being a chronic yes-woman. By practicing transformational self-care, she gained more confidence and discovered that by making her needs a priority, real happiness would soon follow.

Carley is the host of the You Time™ Podcast, and her work is featured on major media outlets such as MindBodyGreen, Bustle, Hello Giggles, and Elite Daily.